Hello hopetobecancerfree

                                       l find it sadly unfortunate that you reached for the term medical negligence with no real understanding of the facts involved, and presumably little Medical training or ability to allow for such a statement. It seeks to cast a poor reflection upon the dedicated staff across the country that put their all into curing and helping their patients deal with this terrible condition. ,l,along with so many others have over the years met a great many of them, who  day in, day out, continue to give of their very best. Sometimes it becomes easier to shoot the messenger than the offender in times of stress.

There are very little certainties in life,but the one l am sure of is that without them, there would be a great deal more misery in peoples lives,and they deserve much better than a post of this nature.This said l wish you well and felt it just needed saying to put some degree of balance back into an emotive issue, at a time of unbelievable stress for those directly involved,and myself and all the other contributors on this forum will join with you in sending our deepest regrets at such an awful time

                                                                                                                                         David

 Hi David

I am so sorry to offend you during this terrible time.

I must have misunderstood your post, I took it to read that your mum had been diagnosed with cancer in the wrong part of her body.   

That is why I mentioned medical negligence, so sorry.

Yes, these people have a vocation to care for people with this terrible illness.

Please accept my apologies, it was really a misunderstanding, I don't know the full facts of your case, was just reaching out to give you a hug and what I thought was a helpful suggestion, but feel awful for upsetting you all.

:love:

Hello again,

                       you are getting mixed up, ,the original post was from lhatecancer1988, l was responding to your reply to that post.

                                                                  We can all agree that it is an awful time of intense pain and anguish that lhatecancer1988 is coming to terms with,and send them all our understanmding,

                                                                                                                                                        david

Sorry once again David, I am under a lot of stress, not just because of awaiting results, lots of other things, not just covid either, so I am messing up all over the place.

It's not an excuse to upset anyone though. Apologies all round.