Tongue Cancer

Hi

im a 36 year old male and have just been diagnosed with tongue cancer. I have a small lump about the size of half a pea on the side of my tongue.

i have been for my CT scan and the surgeon says it looks good. He is hoping that it can just be cut out, but may need to have my lymph nodes removed too, but is hopeful that it can just be cut out.

i love my wife very much but she has a bad habit of investing in too stuff. She has found something saying that even after it has been removed that I may only have up to 5 years to live as it was tongue cancer.

i would be very grateful if there was someone on here who has either had tongue cancer or knows what this is all about?

thanks