Not ready for this

My wife and I have only just found out (last 2 days), that she more than likely has terminal stage IV Ovarian cancer(she is having a confirmation scan later today, but everything she has been told points to there not being much hope, her CA 125 level was over 3 times what it should be), I am 49 & my beautiful wife is only 43, we have a lovely 7 year old little girl and I am just overwhelmed, we will find out today how terminal my wife is. We live way away from any family and I simply do not know where to turn. I have watched my best friend & wife go down hill over the last 48 hours and I am struggling to cope with the abyss that is before our little girl & me once the time comes to say good bye. 
any help anyone could give or suggest will be so gratefully welcomed.

 

thank you

 

P.

  • hi I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Im 32 married and have 4 children and have breast cancer so am unaware of the results you will be waiting for and I also only found out 6 weeks ago about my diagnosis but there is plenty of lovely women on here that can answer any of your questions one thing I've learnt in the last few weeks is talking really helps. I have spoken about everything and anything with my husband mum sister brothers and its helped me loads in terms of understanding all the information that's given to me infact I think I've become abit OCD trying to dissect all the results. I hope that you get good news for your lovely wife, also if you are struggling I'd suggest ringing one of the cancer helplines the ladys are invaluable and will talk for hours about anything if you want to. fingers crossed for you  Charlie x