Hi,
I don't usually write on forums, but Im struggling to help my partner.
My partner has recently been diagnosed with bone and muscle cancer 4 days ago...he is 32. He is a recovering alcoholic, his mum has just died, and he is being evicted from his property next month.
He started to drink again yesterday, and has said some really nasty things that I am struggling to forgive him for. I constantly reassure him Im not going anywhere, but he just wants to get drunk with his local area drinkers.
I seriously dont know how to help with the cancer, housing or his bereavment for his mum. On top of this, he is unable to pay any of the housing arrears off as he has been told to quit work due to his leg may need to be amputated next week.
Please tell me what to do and how to help him, because me reasuuring him is not helping.
Thank you