Hi Mumof2123,

Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm so sorry to read about this - it sounds like an incredibly tough situation for you all.

I can imagine at the moment that emotions are raw for your other half and all of you. It is very cliched but try to take things one day at a time. No doubt he will want to make sure he makes the most of all the time with his mum. For you, I'm sure you will naturally do your best for him and for your boy. Sometimes just being there to support your other half and his mum day-to-day - helping with the little things - and carrying on as normally as possible can be a help.

Do make sure you look after yourself too - it may feel like a lot of responsibility with caring for your son and supporting your other half in this difficult time, so it's important that you take care of yourself too. Speak to others where possible, including us on this forum - this is a safe and welcoming space to unload or to write down any thoughts or worries you may have, with people who understand.

There are of course organisations who can offer support too, such as Macmillan or perhaps a local Maggie's centre. These can be useful resources.

Do browse or search this forum if you would like to, as there will likely be other people here who have gone through or are going through something similar.

Wishing you all the best,

Ben
Cancer Chat Moderator