Hi TC

I have recently been diagnosed with a different cancer, head n neck, but I'm the same age as your dad and have a son the same age as yourself, the only advice I can give is to work with him to get the level of support he needs, there will be days where he wants to spend time with you doing the normal stuff, there will be days when he wants to sit with you and watch a movie, or the football, there will be days when he needs his own space & thoughts, just be there, its undoubtedly going to be a long journey back to health. rest assured he needs you with him every step of it.

I wish both you and your dad all the very best, you sound like the type of guy he will be enormously proud of.

Kind Regards

Garry