Partner has a Grade 3 Oligliodendroglioma - I am in bits...

My partner was diagnosed 6 weeks ago and operated on 5 weeks ago. We have only just had a baby 11 months ago and her and him are my absolute world. He is only 36 and we have been told it cannot be cured but managed. I am really struggling to carry on as normal. The minute I get to some sort of normality it hits me like a brick wall. 

 

I just feel at a loss. He does not want a prognosis but I also dont want to carry on not knowing. As I want to make the best of every bit of time we get. Just feel like I need to get it out. Aa I feel so mad at the world and that it has happened to him but also know I need to try and stay positive for him. All the dreams of marriage and more babies are eating me up as I know these may now never happen... 

 

I just do not know what to do with myself tbh. :/

  • Hello Emlou212

    Welcome to the forum although I'm so sorry to read about the news that brings you here. Especially at a time when you and your partner should be able to sit back and enjoy your little girl. I can imagine that it's been a very difficult time for you both. 

    It's understandable that you may have questions that your partner doesn't want to know the answers too. I wonder if he'd be willing to give permission for his Dr to speak to you. 

    Alternatively if you think it would help to speak to one of our nurses then you're most welcome to call them. They may be able to give you some information and I'm sure will be able to listen and offer support. They're available on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm. 

    I hope that your partners recovery from his surgery goes as smoothly as possible and that you're able to spend lots of time together as a family making memories. 
    Know that you're always welcome to post here Emlou212. I'm sure that the community will do their best to support you through whatever is to come. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator