First time I have been on a forum like this and Im sorry if i ramble but i have so many questions, a lot i know i wont get answers for.

My mother found out last week that she has secondary cancer in both her Lungs and Liver with no sign at the moment of her Primary. They are completing another CT scan and ulta sound to try to locate it. From my understanding the lung cancer is about the size of a 5 to 10p. her Liver cancer is pretty much all over.

From my understanding the secondary cancer (metastatic) is stage 4, however we dont know what grade at this stage. I am trying to be as positive as I can be for her. But inside me I need to know a No ******** response. I deal better with things knowing what im dealing with so I can help her forward plan and get her the help she needs. Everyone thinks Im being a little negative but I am far from that. 

I just want to be able to help her. Any advice would be appreciated.