Oh sky ..

Bless ya .. cancer sucks ... esp when it hits so many ones that are close ... your not alone .. we all feel like running ... if truth be told ... even us with cancer ... 

What cancer does your mum have ... as you know there's lots of us cancer lasses and lads on here , pushing the boundries ... and cancer has come a long way ... so don't give up yet ...

You know it really is o.k to feel scared/ angry / tearfull and to even feel o.k ... all those feelings we have to acknowledge they are emotions we need to express ... l think I'm pretty strong, but I've had my moments , where I "lost the plot" ... and couldn't stop crying .. then when it's all out .. somehow we find the will to go on a tad longer ... just take one day at time ... try not to look ahead ... then it looks overwhelming... 

I can't imagine how one human can go through so much ... but you can always chat / vent on here ... we can't take it away .. but we can listen ... sending you a big vertual hug.... Chrissie

Thanks Chriss,

At the moment I feel really, really overwhelmed. My mum has just been given 3 months to live. I should find out about my dads condition in a couple of weeks - see if he can get any treatment. It feels more overwhelming becasue my husband is so ill - he has end stage liver failure.

My head is swimming at the moment. Everything feels not real.

Sky

 Its so hard  my mum has 12 weeks she has just had the call on where she would like to be at the end and that has upset her alot my dad finds out next week whats happening my husbend is doing really well its so hard i fell like running and not stoping i dont know what to say to my mum or dad i just dont know but thank you chrissie its nice to talk x

Hi sky ...

Bless ya ... no one should have to go through what you are ... I've never known cancer so crule ... 

I lost both my parents in my 30s... and divorced a few years after .. so it's different but l can empathise for you ... have you other family sky ... or good friends .. and you know I'm here most days .. I can't take it away sweet heart but I can listen ... 

Have you called Marie Currie... go on their home page and see the things they help with ... they are there for terminal patients and their families.... they deal with things like this daily and you could actually speak to someone .. ask them for help ... please try .. my heart goes out to you .. 

I bet you want to run .. and hope it's all a nightmare ... hang on ... I'll keep looking out for you .. sending you one of my nanny hugs, I save for my wonderful granddaughter... I'm sure she'd love you to get one ..

Chrissie