Hi first post. Recently diagnosed with bc grade 2 no stage as yet. Biopsy taken on lymph nodes yesterday as they are enlarged. Can’t stop crying - thinking it’s spread. Have hot sweats last night which I read is a sign it’s spread. Excuse the pun but the waiting is killing me. If lymph nodes infected got to have mri. Don’t understand why all couldn’t be done together. Have 4 children haven’t told them yet as don’t have any answers. Got it into my head they are going to say stage four and not give me long. Irrational? Not sure why I’m posting really x