Struggling

Struggling to care about anything. Housework needs doing, flowers need planting, laundry needs ironing etc and none of it's getting done. Nothing seems to matter anymore. All I can think about is CANCER. It's far reaching and consuming tentacles taking over my body and mind. 

  • Hi ya ...

    That's what cancer wants you to do .. it wants to consume us ... as for house work etc .. so what.. it'll wait ... the trouble is there's no getting away from it .. every advert .. it's on ... put the radio on and it's on there too .. pick up a magazine its there .. drs got the posters everywhere ... 

    I think we all get a cancer overload sometimes ... on days I want a brake and it's everywhere, I could scream. . We just want a "day off" if it's not about cancer , it's about funerals ... so I'm really with you there ... we need a cancer free day ... 

    But come on, your not alone ... everyone on here wishes we didn't need any of this ... but you get your mo jo back on track ... I've been on here nearly 2 years ... and it will never stop ... never give us a brake .. so let's all hold on together .. Chrissie xx

  • Read your message and had to write something.xx

     all i can say is, we all have our own personal journeys we are on. but never forget we all have something in common and yes its the dreaded Cancer..it can consume our lives somedays even weeks especially when first diagnosed and the tests appt and the waiting for results. It does get better and on those days its good to get out in the garden or just clean out the cupboards in the kitchen. Living with cancer becomes  normal and finds a place in our everyday lives. It is managable and if at anytime it isnt for you please speak to your Gp or nurse. They are there to help..never be scared to reach out on here. Wishing you well.. xx