31 years old and I have breast cancer.

I found a lump a couple of weeks ago, I left it. I went to GP last week only because I noticed it was getting bigger. She said she would refer me to hospital for a check up and it was nothing to worry about. I was expecting a letter with an appointment sometime. 

 

Yesterday I got a call at 1.30 asking me to go into hospital for 2.15pm. It was a whirlwind afternoon. I was examined, scanned, mammographed and had a biopsy taken. I was rushed from one dept to another. In the end a Doctor sat me down and confirm I had breast cancer. It knocked the wind out of me. All I could think about is my three beautiful daughters. It was the last thing I was expecting. I’m now booked in on Tuesday for MRI scan to check the rest of my body, back on Wednesday for biopsy result to say what grade it is and my treatment plan. My emotions are everywhere. How do you cope? How do you keep a brave face on for your children? I’m not telling them anything unless I have to. It’s so hard not to imagine the worst. I have until Tuesday until I’m back, best tips to keep my mind occupied? Help x 

  • I'm also 31 I was diagnosed a week ago with cervical cancer so although not the same I feel your pain on the waiting. Just try to keep a level head, don't read a load of stuff online and scare yourself silly and just remember Cancer doesn't mean that it's a death sentence. Stay strong for your babies, we have both got this XXX 

  • Hi there ...

    So so sorry you've been given this diagnosis we all dread ...  l always remember the numb feeling l got on hearing those words ... cancer and a grade 3 ... I'm so glad my daughter in law was with me, as everything after that was a blur ... just that word echoing in my head ... 

    That was nearly two years ago ... and looking back, that was the scariest time.... after hearing that and waiting for masectomy. .. l even wrote letters to loved ones .. sorted everything out as l was sure that was it ... game over ... trust me most everyone feels so scared till they get their treatment plan under way ... the easiest part was the masectomy itself ... only needed paracetamol....

    Now you know there's lots of us breast lasses on here ... there was a wonderfull lady, jolomine who helped me through those scary early days .. many of us have come on here since ... there's a thread called "the good and bad "  started by @sandra123 if you look on there you'll see lots of stories on there..

    Brest cancer has come a long way .. and that word cancer wants us to lay down and never get up .. it wants us weak .. well I've got a tea shirt that says cancer touched my boob so I kicked it's ***... and that's what wer all doing ... we've not lost any regulars yet .. they may get knocked down, but they get up again and look it in the eye and get ready for the next round ... the stronger we get, the weaker cancer gets ... so please don't Google ... no more "what ifs" get your vertual boxing gloves on and join us all in this ring ... your not alone ... 

    Sending you a vertual hug ... Chrissie xx

  • I am older with grown up children and my heart goes out to you. Waiting for staging and all the other things is like a rollercoaster ride.

    i have realised breast cancer has nowhere to hide.  Xrays will find it, doctors know what feeds it and will give us medication to starve it, if it has travelled to other places chemo will kill it, doctor s will surgically rid our bodies of it.  Cancer will not win.  Never before has medicine been so individually tailored to attack the cancer.  

    Its a journey none of us want but, together, we support each other day or night.

    xxxxxx

  • How are you doing now? I am 32 and have just recieved my diagnosis of breast cancer. I am waiting for my MRI. I have been having panic attacks at night and feeling too scared to sleep. Did you experience  this? 

    I had just started my new job which I had spent my twenties studying and training for, now I am feeling the lowest I've ever felt before.