I havent been diagnosed but have many of the sypmtoms:

weightloss, large lump in neck, cough, fever, night sweats, red patches on skin, bodily hair loss.

my gp thought i had lymphoma so sent me for chest xray and ultra sound on my neck which came back all fine. as were blood tests.

I was just wondering if your partner had similar symptoms and did his diagnosis take long?

Im sorry i know you were looking for support yourself but i was hoping perhaps you could help