Hi there ...

Wer not meant to cope with it, or to be strong all the time ... I'm sure your all holding so many feelings in .. it's really not good for anyone ... this cancer journey is about sharing feelings, admitting everyone is scared .. and sharing tears and lots of hugs .. 

It's about giving yourself permission to feel all those feelings.. and know it's o.k .. even superwoman would crumble going through this journey... and wer only human ... 

I'm 64 and a grade 3 breast cancer .. l had a mastectomy in 2017 .. and still going strong .. so some grade 3 can be o.k too ... 

So try to share and l know I'm really open with my cancer and we all cope better knowing we are holding on together ... forget the stiff upper lip ... it's all about balance .. feelings out .. listening to each other, honestly ... and then facing each problem as and when it comes up .. it's a rollercoaster ride ... but there's lots of us on that same ride with you. .

Sending you a big hug ... Chrissie xx