Hi everyone,
Not exactly sure what I'm looking for on here, probably just a chat and to hear other people's stories to help me through the day. My dad has just been diagnosed with an aggressive head and neck tumour with invasive local spread. It's likely a thyroid origin but we're still waiting on biopsy as it could be thyroid, lymphoma or tonsil primary. This has literally happened in the span of 2-3 weeks with him getting a small lump in his neck thinking he had a cold to a large rapidly growing mass affecting his breathing, swallow and speech. He's already been told surgery is unlikely to be an option but there could be some options with chemotherapy and radiation.
To add to the pain of all this, they live in the US and are US citizens so they're having to tackle the US healthcare system and insurance and all that. I'm a doctor myself and live in the UK and have made arrangements to get over there to look after them. Being a doctor, I know the prognosis for this type of cancer is not good especially with this rapid progression rate. However I want to get away from the scientific facts and statistics for a bit and just talk to some people on here about their experiences and struggles and so on. I have delivered bad news to my patients many times and it's broken my heart doing that but hearing this news about my own dad and realising how little time I may have left with him has just about destroyed me. I don't know how to live any sort of life right now, I'm just in a daze.
Thanks for reading, I'd love to hear anything from anyone but I'm specifically keen to hear from people with similar tumours...thyroid anaplastic, primary thyroid lymphoma, tonsillar cancers...