hi , my mam has just been sent home from hospital last weekend , diagnosed with terminal lung cancer, she has a collapsed lung, copd, they told her it's stage 4 and it has spread ,unfortunately because of other illness she can't have any treatment because it will kill her anyway,I live in South Wales 5 hrs away I've visited her , but my mam just looked like my mam ,only when I got back to Wales it hit me , mam says she has months but she is coughing blood can't breath properly ppl saying don't worry come up next week she still will be here , I'm torn to be there and here in Wales as I'm self employed , also I have the stress of putting a funeral in place for her , I just want to know how long could mam be here