Dad Diagnosed with inoperable Stomach Cancer

Hi there folks

 

My dad has just been diagnosed with stomach cancer and the scans and tests have shown that this has not spread to any other part of his body. The literature we received on guidance of cancer informed us that people can have their whole stomach removed and still live on. The cancer is high in his stomach and impedes his swallowing at times but for the hospital to say that this is inoperable is a little hard for me to accept as the top of the stomach could be removed leaving the bottom part to be re-attached to his pipe.

We are being told the cance has gone too far to operate - how can this be if the cance has not spread? Can it not be simply removed with his stomach or top half of his stomach? My dad is a fit 77 year old who wants to live on and refuses to accept this news.

What are our options for a second opinion or paying privately will there be anyone out there who can cut away this cancer or take the organ with the cancer?

We would apprecioate anyone shedding some light on this situation for us please

Many thanks

  • Thank you for your reply Darren but it was really upsetting to read. I am sorry that your dad didn't receive treatment that would have helped him. Our consultant was positive at first but I felt yesterday she was trying her utmost to put David off the idea of surgery. The way your father starved to death must have been awful to see and for him to endure. I wonder if the risk of not surviving the operation is preferable to that end to your life. I don't know whether or not to show my husband what you said about your father's death. However we will just have to wait to hear about the anaesthetist's appointment and what they will say. It's a horrible horrible time and I'm sorry you've been through it.

  • I'm sorry my words upset you. I think probably give your husband more time to reflect on the alternative possibility before showing him my message. Surround yourselves with loved ones. Enjoy every moment you have, you will find your husband is able to still enjoy things for now but a month or two he will tire very easily and the opportunities to enjoy each other become fewer.

    I hope you receive some good news.

    my thoughts are with you all

    Darren