I’m am looking for support from any males that have been told they have bladder cancer and that their bladder has to be removed. 

We just found out today that the cancer as invaided the muscle wall if the bladder. They need to remove my husbands bladder. First they need to do another CT to see if it has spread to his chest!  I need some hope and opinions as to the next steps to take. We just relocated back to our home state after retiering to the south for 12 years. This is our first Christmas in our new home back in Michigan. Not a very good way to spend the holidays......