Luckily I don't work and hubby self employed 

so I can make all the appointments 

Completely agree with Jbains, you can do this. i did and I’m useles with stuff like this. 

Sorry to hear of your dignosis. I was diagnosed 3 years ago ( I was 29) with Stage 1 BC has 1.5cm tumour removed followed by radiotherapy and 5 years Tamoxifen. I still get nerve pain in my side from the lymph node removal and sometimes in my boob. but i was "lucky" not to have to go through chemo. 

I was dignosed Just before xmas 2014 so its awful to have to go through this around this time of year ( of course there is no good time)  Try and get your family and friends to do as much as possible for you. Most feel lost or useless and don't know what to say or do to help. Even asking them to do soemthing practical like get some groceries or hoover up. I made the mistake of trying to do things on my own. Try not to do this as you may cause yourself some serious damage (especially after surgery)

I found a lump recently and Had an MRI last week and they have requested I go back in for an Ultra sound tomorrow, Im obviously very worried but have good friends and family ( and a good partner thsi time round) 

Good luck on your journey xx