Hi there. I know any change to timings of what we are told is scary but there could be several reasons for it which could be nothing to do with seriousness of process. Because we panic we forget to ask why the change.

Every appointment and check before treatment feels scary but it's perfectly normal. I am now into my 6th month after treatment so can remember how anxious I felt and how I had to calm myself down. Its the unknown that is scary so sometimes putting pen to paper (a diary) and also just letting it all out on this forum really helped me.  Our loved ones are there for us but we don't want to burden them. This forum allows you to be as "free" as many are feeling the same and give information through their experience.  Hope it all goes well.