Awful news. I'm not a medic but know that kidney cancer is not automatically terminal even when it has spread, unlike some other cancers. So don't give up hope just yet, at least until the specialists tell you, or your family member, more.  xx Harry

Hello 

I feel your pain. 

I found out last month suddenly my dad has cancer and it's tetmainal they can't do anything. 

Only last week found out he has a few weeks left. 

I feel so numb and it hasn't sunk in yet. 

My mum is devastated but trying to be strong for the family. 

I hope your family member Is treatable we just have to try and stay strong. 

Such an awful time as u would never think this would happen. 

There's not much I can say as since I found out Ive been numb like a black cloud over me.

All I want is my dad to be ok but knowing he won't kills me. 

Thinking of u xx