Stage 3 Cancer of kidney/Ureter

My mum has just be diagnosed with stage 3 cancer of her kidney/ureter! She can't have surgery as she recently had a small stroke. And was told that even if they did try to do surgery that she make have a stroke or even die whilst operating! She was even told that radiotherapy/chemotherapy won't help? The only thing that they may be able to do is laser in about 3/4mths. Iam a total wreck. And I can't even imagine what she is going through? She didn't ask how long she may have? As she doesn't want to know! Please does anyone know roughly how long she may have? Please I need to know! Thank you Ann. X

  • Hello Ann,

    I noticed you'd not received a reply yet so I wanted to stop by to offer you a very warm welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm very sorry to hear that your mum has been diagnosed with stage 3 cancer; it must be an incredibly worrying time for you and your family right now. 

    Can I suggest giving our cancer nurses a quick call? They're available till 5pm today (on 0808 800 4040), and would be happy to talk through any questions you might have about your mum's treatment and her outcome. 

    Hopefully, a friendly face from the forum will be along soon to share their experiences too.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Helen 

    Cancer Chat Moderator