My mum is 83 bless her she has dementia she had her breast removed 3 weeks.

I don't think she fully understand s the serious ness of all that's going on.

The consultant said it was stage 3  and the tumour as 6.5 mils

We saw the oncologist last week and after assessing mum he told me and my brother he was reluctant to offer her treatment and asked us what we thought we agree with him.

I have a meeting with a Macmillan nurse on Thursday.

All this has happened so quickly poor mum she's really struggling with dementia .

I feel like I'm on a roller coaster emotionally.

Is there anybody out there been or is in the same boat.

Jill