Hi guys , I'm 33 years old and have been told 2 weeks ago I have testicular cancer, it's spread to my tummy and I'm struggling to eat, have been for a while, I've been to my Drs with this 7 times over a 3 year period, I'm having surgery on 2/2/17 to remove the testical, don't really know why I'm posting this , I have a 13 year old son and don't know what to expect, should I tell him?