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Breast cancer - diagnosed today and have a few questions

megasaurusrex89
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Hey all, my name is Megan I'm 27 and today I received the shocking news that I have breast cancer. Just starting to process it now but wanted to just say hello and also ask for advice on telling people? I've told close family but I don't know how/when to tell friends? If anyone has any advice I would appreciate it massively.

I've also started a blog, apparently they are pretty good ways to talk about your feelings. Has anyone started that too? Did you carry it on? I don't know if I'm allowed to post it but the link is whenlarrymetmeggy.blogspot.co.uk/ if anyone fancies reading.

So yeah, I'm terrified but numb at the same time, wierdest feelings I have ever experienced to be honest. Appreciate any help you could give xx

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    Hi Megan, 

    Sorry you have received this news today. It is very shocking especially at your young age.

    When I was diagnosed I told my sister and my two daughters straight away, which was very difficult and tearful.

    My surgeon rang my work and explained my situation and that I would be off work for at least six months.

    I told my good friends during the next couple of days. And I spoke to my supervisor at work, to explain my situation more fully and asked her to keep it confined to the colleagues who I work with on a daily basis as I didn't want the whole department knowing my situation, until I had fully come to terms with it myself.

    I hope this is of some help to you.

    I wish you well.

    Sending hugs Doreen x

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    Hi Doreen, Thank you so much, that is a massive help. I haven't told work yet but I will do the same as you I think. I'm thinking I'll tell close friends at the weekend. It's all a bit overwhelming at the minute! Megan xx
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    Glad it was of some help. This forum is very good for that, what ever emotion you are feeling, someone will be able to help.

    keep in touch and let me know how you get on.

    you can send it privately if you prefer, just add me as a friend request. But I will leave that to you. I am happy to send messages either way.

    Take care x

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    Hi Megan, So sorry to hear about your diagnosis. It's a weird time isn't it trying to process it all. It's very overwhelming, scary and surreal. I've found it easier to talk to friends rather than family for some reason. I don't mind talking about it but I worry about how my family will react. I have enough to deal with in my own head without having to worry about their feelings too: sounds selfish huh? Best of luck on your journey x

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