My mum was diagnosed with breast cancer on Tuesday. She's taken it really well (we both had a feeling that the results would be as they were.) But I don't want her to be ill,I don't want her to have chemo which is going to make her look ill,I don't want her to need a scan to make sure it can cope with the chemo and that it doesn't get damaged. I know I sound selfish and childish but we've come through so much (we lost my sister after lifelong illness a few years back) and she doesn't deserve this. I DON'T WANT HER TO GO THROUGH IT. And I certainly don't want to have to see her go through it. Will I get over this??? I don't want to feel like this,I'm normally the strong one