Have just put this under 'practical matters' but maybe this is more appropriate. My husband has just been diagnosed with nhs screen detected bowel cancer. We are now in the waiting stage- for appt. with consultant then surgery. My husband is fine on the surface (with friends, family etc) but at home he seems to blame me and is totally shutting me out. I really want to help and support him, I love him so much, but it is like he hates me now and thinks he can manage the 'journey' on his own. We have been together over 20 years and thought we could see any problem through together. How can I help him when he wont even talk to me?
