Dad has terminal Mesothelioma.

My dad was diagnosed a few months ago and had his first dose of Chemo a few weeks back. He is really struggling emotionally and feel he is pushing us all away and it hurts! My parents divorced when I was young so don't live with my Dad but we are close. When I call he sounds very low and he has cancelled seeing myself and Sister a few times. It hurts because we know time is precious. Has anyone else had the same experience with a loved one with  Cancer? Thanks x

 

  • Hello Vickymo70,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat. You have come to the right place to talk to others who have had a very similar experience. We have a lovely lady here jules54 whose husband was also terminally ill with mesothelioma and I am sure she would be able to relate to all the emotions you describe. She will remember very well how her husband felt at the time and will know how difficult it can be for your sister and for you at the moment.

    I hope you get to chat to Jules here and to anyone who is also looking after a loved one with cancer.

    Best wishes,

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator