Hello Gary, 

So sorry to hear about your mother's diagnosis. It must be extremely hard for you with not being able to comfort her right now. But luckily she has your sister with her for support. Regarding the spine pain it could be a number of things but obviously they need to take precautions and check incase it is something more serious. It is very hard and as equally frustrating when you have so many questions and little answers and it does play on your mind. Right now it's very raw for you and your family as it's not quite sunken in yet, I remember those feelings all too well. In all honesty I'm not too sure if anyone can answer that question for you only her doctor would know how treatable it is and what the next steps will be. Googling is probably the worst thing to do however we are all probably guilty of turning to Google when looking for answers. 

My father was diagnosed last April so a year ago now with stage 4 incurable bowel cancer which has spread to his lungs and liver. His cancer is incurable meaning he will never be rid of the cancer but it is maintainable to a certain degree meaning he can have chemotherapy to hopefully shrink the cancer, possibly stabilise it and bide him more time than say a patient whose been classed as terminal. However there will come a time when the cancer will unfortunately take my father's life. It's very raw and it most definitely makes you think differently about life now. But all we can do is try and stay strong especially for our parents. I've only just turned 27...I feel too young to be dealing with these emotions however I haven't got much choice. Make sure you seek support from any friends and family and if need be come on here and talk to us...we can all sympathise. 

Wish you will and I hope you get the answers regarding your mum's health soon.