Hi, I have never lost anyone close to me, my grandparents are alive and I have a close knit family with my mum, dad and two brothers, 6 and 14. I am 19 years old and recently we discovered my mum has metastatic cancer, they haven't found where it started on the scan but we know her entire liver is covered so they can't operate. At the moment they have just given her strong painkillers awaiting the biopsy.
They said they can't cure it. I don't know if there is something I should be doing, I spend a lot of time with everyone, but does anyone know how long she will have left? She is tired, often cold, has no appetite and I don't know if this is all the Cancer or some of it down to the stress of finding out. I just want to know what I'm expecting and if there is anything I should be doing to accept it, and help everyone else close to me. Thankyou.