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Finding out my nan has terminal cancer

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A few nights ago I found out my nan has cancer again that wont be cured and has a few months left. I love my nan with all my heart and shes the only person I cant imagine my life without. I keep holding onto hope that the doctors are lying and she will stay with us because i dont want to accept it. i dont want my nan to leave me because she is the most important person in my life. and i just wanted to talk to people going through this too because im wondering if it ever gets better?

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    Hi Sophie,

    You sound like you are very close to your nan so it must be so hard for you to find out that your nan has terminal cancer.

    You have come to the right place to talk to others who are going through a similar experience and I am sure they will be along soon to share their own story with you.

    Best wishes,

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Hi sophiem,

    Sorry to hear of your nan's situation. I lost my nan to cancer as well.

    I don't think there is anything anyone can say, its just a terrible thing to happen, and not something you can prepare yourself fully for.

    The only postitive thing I found was when my nan did pass, I knew she was at peace.

    Try to make the most of the time you have left.

    I am very sorry.

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