• Good morning beach life. I am sorry to read your post about you're partner.  Both of you are suffering and not able to communicate it and offer each other comfort. I really wish he had the vocabulary to tell you how he feels and his fears.  Perhaps- sometimes these things take time.  I can the be the same sometimes.  No one can understand me and seem so obstinate ! I don't mean it - sometimes us blokes just can't find the right words. At this time some times we find closeness in the silence of a country walk or walk down the beach.  You have suffered also - and know something about uncertainties and treatments and our bodies being - err well - unexpected.  

    I offer you both quiet place - a brooding dove - the spring flowers that dance together with the wish that this maybe a special time Xx

    Do write back and use the forum to let of steam at this stressful time

    Xx

    Steven