Good morning beach life. I am sorry to read your post about you're partner. Both of you are suffering and not able to communicate it and offer each other comfort. I really wish he had the vocabulary to tell you how he feels and his fears. Perhaps- sometimes these things take time. I can the be the same sometimes. No one can understand me and seem so obstinate ! I don't mean it - sometimes us blokes just can't find the right words. At this time some times we find closeness in the silence of a country walk or walk down the beach. You have suffered also - and know something about uncertainties and treatments and our bodies being - err well - unexpected.
I offer you both quiet place - a brooding dove - the spring flowers that dance together with the wish that this maybe a special time Xx
Do write back and use the forum to let of steam at this stressful time
Xx
Steven