Hello eyeryone, I dont really know what to say, I have never wrote on any forum ever, anyway feeling really low at the mo, found out wednesday that my dad has lung cancer that has spread to the lymph nodes, dad wont tell us to much only that it cant be cured but maybe shrunk, he was meant to go for a double dose of chemo monday but has now been told he has to wait untill 25th, can anyone help me understand whats going on, dont know what to say or do, should add that he is a young 79 and has a very aggressive form of small cell cancer any advice or experiences would be a massive help thanks