Potential diagnosis

Hi

i was seen by the gynaecologist yesterday after finding a lump down below, I have had a few lumps in the past which have been I growing hairs so I thought this would be sane, nope he told me I needed an urgent biopsy and that in his opinion it would likely show cancer and due to the location surgery may not be an option it would be radiotherapy first. I am in a state of shock, worried about how I tell my parents as they have been through a lot themselves lately and I just keep imaging the worst. Has anyone else been through this diagnosis and come out of the other side ok and cancer free?