4.5 years after breast cancer they found a brain tumour

I’m devastated, shocked and traumatised. Apparently it is small and they have said it is treatable but I’m not coping well and feel so depressed and overwhelmed. This came out of the blue. No symptoms . Only found out to to being away on a plane and the pressure caused a seizure . 

any advice on how to try and cope 

  • Hello EmmaVG1,

    What a shock it must have been for you especially as it all came out of the blue and was triggered by the pressure on the plane causing a seizure. That must have been a frightening experience too. It's totally normal to be left feeling a bit traumatised after what happened and to be feeling overwhelmed as you really didn't expect this 4.5 years after your breast cancer experience.

    It's reassuring though that it is small and treatable and I am sure you will be in the most capable hands and it can be treated quickly and effectively. I hope that you find out more about the treatment plan as soon as possible as not knowing exactly what to expect is bound to make you feel anxious. 

    It might help also to talk things through with our cancer nurses so don't hesitate to give them a call on this free number 0808 800 4040 - their helpline is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm. 

    Other members of our community may have been in a similar place before and I hope that they will be along shortly to share their experience with you. I know it's a really hard time for you and it's difficult to know how to cope after finding this out but I wanted you to know you are not alone and I will now let others come and say hello and share with you how they themselves managed to cope in similar circumstances.

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Hi Emma,

    A very warm welcome to the forum. 

    I am so sorry to hear about your brain tumour diagnosis. Don't feel in the least apologetic about how you feel. Your reaction is perfectly normal with such a devastating diagnosis, especially when you had not noticed any symptoms prior to your plane trip. The seizure itself must have come as quite a shock, but the good thing is that this has highlighted the problem, while the tumour is still small and treatable. Have you discussed any treatment options yet?

    My mother was diagnosed with metastases to her brain, bone, liver and lungs 12 years after she was treated for breast cancer. Unfortunately, hers had gone too far for treatment at that stage. This is why I feel that cancer monitoring should last for life and not just for 5 years post-op. I am sure that if she had received regular check ups this would have been caught much earlier and might well have saved her. I have had 2 bouts of breast cancer and 1 of pre-cancer, all within a year of each other. I had a lumpectomy for the first one, then a double mastectomy for the second bout. I am now 16 years post-op and would feel much more reassured if I could have regular monitoring.

    I hope that you discover what treatment lies ahead of you soon and that it is successful. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx