Only one week ago my husband had severe pain in his upper back shoulders and collar bones with reduced grip in his left hand, we thought trapped nerve and he took painkillers. At work Monday the weakness in his hand was worse, I rang to make an appointment with the GP, on his symptoms they advised to go to A&E. 

Suspected heart attack -clear suspected stroke-clear suspected aortic anyuerism -clear. All good news. Bad news was the scan showed clusters of inguinale and mesorectal lymph nodes and indicating cancer either of rectum prostate.

Colonoscopy today absolutely clear, but felt mass on his prostate, so waiting for urology appointment.

My problem is he is so happy not to have bowel cancer (His brother has prostate cancer but very slow growing and just being monitored) I am terrified what stage he is at due to involvement of the lymph nodes and the pain in his collar bones, trying to be really positive until we know what we are dealing with, but really scared for him.