Am I odd? I haven't felt anxious since being diagnosed

I too was diagnosed 3 days ago, but I think my response is odd as I haven't felt anxious at all, my university friend has also been diagnosed recently and she wasn't sleeping or eating whilst waiting for her biopsy results. What I was thinking was that it was ironic that it was 4 years almost to the day that my husband was diagnosed with oesophageal cancer, I'm not sure whether I was using that to block my thoughts? 

My friend and I are obviously comparing our treatment - despite living only about a mile apart we are going to different hospitals, she seems to be getting more written information than me, ie she got a 5 page letter detailing her results and explaining what would happen next. I haven't had anything like that, in fact, the consultant spoke with a heavy accent and we (my daughter and sister came with me to the appointment) had trouble understanding exactly what he was saying. I do have an appointment on Tuesday, I hope I'll get more information then? My friend is having a mastectomy on 12th May, hopefully I'll be told a date on Tuesday?

  • I'm sorry to hear you've recently been diagnosed with cancer Emsnan.

    Finding out you have cancer can bring about a whole host of thoughts and emotions and as such, there is no right or wrong way to react. Everyone responds and copes in different ways, so you are not odd Emsnan as your reaction is completely normal.

    I'm not sure from your post what time your appointment is today, but I'm wishing you all the best and hope you're able to get more information about your diagnosis.

    If you'd like to discuss your situation further with one of our cancer nurses, they're available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. They will do all they can to answer your questions and put your mind at ease about what's to come.

    Keep posting if you find it useful Emsnan and remember that we'll be here to support you every step of the way.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator