Hi Debbie  ,

I remember that anxiety   I'm sorry you have this worry with your husband. 

Just to say we've been there and it's about the same time scale.From hubby's diagnosis with muscle invasive bladder cancer in March 2023 to his cystoprostatectomy in June 23....... at the age of 74 . (I can't really spell that but it's in my tablet's dictionary)

It is a big op. but it's do-able . There were a few appointments beforehand to keep us busy so the time seemed to go quickly really . Once you get on the cancer roller coaster  it's quite a ride . It's a good idea for the patient to get as fit as possible beforehand ,  so that can help the time fly too . You can't do anything to control the cancer but you can try to be positive,  and be confident the surgeons will deal with it . 

Remember ... "your strength will lie in keeping calm and showing trust ".(Isaiah 30:15b).

Zillah 

Thank you so much for advice and kind words. I feel like it's never ending and I totally agree with the positive attitude. Hopefully the future looks brighter. Xxx