Dad newly diagnosed Glioblastoma

We've recently heard that my dad has been diagnosed with stage 4 Glioblastoma.  It came out of the blue and we are all just trying to process it, honestly it doesn't feel real, he is so well currently (thank goodness) and not really keen to talk about it.  We are carrying on with a smile, staying brave and making every day/ moment count.  But I'm struggling to think about anything else.  I want to suport my mum and dad as much as possible and respect their wishes not to talk about it.  I feel I need to talk, just to process what it happening and to stay strong for them and my children.  Any support or advice would be great.

I had surgery a few years ago and know how powerful it is to have contact with people who have been through similar situations.

  • Welcome to the forum, MsG8,
    I’m sorry to hear about your dad’s diagnosis, and I can only imagine how difficult this time must be for you and your family. That said, I’m relieved to hear that your dad is currently doing well, and it’s clear that you’re doing everything you can to support him and your mum.
    It’s completely normal to struggle with processing something like this, especially when you’re balancing the need to stay strong for your family while also dealing with your own emotions. Respecting your parents’ wishes not to talk about it is admirable, but please remember that it’s just as important for you to have a space where you can express yourself. Talking to others who have been through something similar can help with processing your feelings and I hope you’ll find that kind of support here among our members.
    You’re doing an incredible job supporting your family, and please don’t forget that looking after your own well-being is just as important.
    Best wishes to you and your family,
    Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator