My mother was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in November 2024. At this time, she says she does not want to know what stage/type/grade she has, meaning the rest of the family cannot know either. She has had 3 rounds of chemotherapy so far, but has become too unwell to receive anymore at the moment. My mother has just turned 67 and before this was completely fit and healthy (although is diagnosed with type 2 diabetes which is well managed), worked full time and is a non-smoker. The not-knowing is such a struggle for me as I already feel so helpless, but I feel that knowing what we’re going up against can bring some positivity and motivation. How can I help her come to terms with this without pushing her too far and causing her any upset? Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.