Hi I am having the same procedure on Wednesday I have found it doesn't matter what anybody says the fear is constantly with you ,I am the same ,I don't switch off at night neither.I think my fear is to find out what stage i am at.Hope you find something to help you .

Its all constant fear. I know its not happening to me, but my son, but its constant fear as to what theyre going to say. My son will be told the stage soon as well but hasn't got appointment through yet. Keep googling what I know so far about his tumour size and no spread etc to try and predict - it's driving me mad!

Hi if it was me I would ring and ask for results/next steps. Don’t wait any longer - hope it turns out okay for your wife

Hi, I’ve been ringing lots.. they say they are escalating it, but not much they can do as a different hospital is doing the analysis.

Hiya 

If your wife is struggling to get any nutrition down and or is regurgitating at all go to A and E. Hubby waited so long to see oncologist he ended up having a stent fitted first 

I hope your wife doesnt get to that stage but dont hang about

Fingers crossed

RB

Thank you. I will chase again tomorrow. 

They are so slow at times arent they. Its torture. Have you got a number for dietician? Or your allocated nurse to contact? They should help, thats what they are there for. I hope you get somewhere tomorrow. You really do have to be quite insistent I'm sure you are being.

The waiting really is the hardest part. Also, trying to keep your wife as well as possible, whilst waiting for answers. 
I can understand why you are feeling so stressed. It sounds like you are doing everything to move things along. Just got to keep banging that drum 

I hope tomorrow is more fruitful and you get some answers 

Thanks, yes it’s awful watching her struggle to eat and I just feel helpless. 
thankyou all for your replies today xxx

Hi  lots of gravy sauces custard 

We blend everything again at the moment and I add extra calories with sour cream or similar thinned down to the consistency your lovely wife can tolerate .....do not eat bread or similar it expands and blocks up the throat ......

Protein shakes again thinned down

Hope this helps a little 

She has 3x fresubin a day plus two tins of soup. A pot of custard and blended rice pudding. 
If we are having a gravy dinner, then I blend hers with extra gravy. 
haven’t tried cream. She can’t tolerate ice cream which surprised me.

I did wonder about blending some single cream and cheesecake. 

im trying to get her to snack more between meals, but that’s a bit alien to her.

I do wonder if 50% of the weight loss is worry. I’ve lost 2.5kg this month myself. 

She has 3x fresubin a day plus two tins of soup. A pot of custard and blended rice pudding. 
If we are having a gravy dinner, then I blend hers with extra gravy. 
haven’t tried cream. She can’t tolerate ice cream which surprised me.

I did wonder about blending some single cream and cheesecake. 

im trying to get her to snack more between meals, but that’s a bit alien to her.

I do wonder if 50% of the weight loss is worry. I’ve lost 2.5kg this month myself. 

Extra cream in the rice pud 

And in the soup would work too

hubby found things like wotsits and similar snacks that melt in the mouth or now with lots of dips 

It really is trial and error ...also use full fat everything.....you are doing really well 

Worry will do that. When my son was diagnosed I lost about 10lbs over a couple of weeks 

The results unfortunately confirmed the tumour is malignant.
However on a positive note, the CT didn't show any obvious spread of the tumour.

Next step is a PET scan in the city hospital possibly followed by Lap staging to get much more detail on the tumour and look for any signs of cancer spread.
Then they look at treatment needed.

We are taking this news as positive as the CT didn't show anything else.

I’m feeling happier at this point.

That is very good news that theres no spread. I remember the absolute relief at hearing that news myself for my son.

Thanks Karren, my imagination had been running wild, so the scan has given me something to grab hold of. 

The mind is good at filling in the gaps and making up its own stories.Hopefully, you will have a more peaceful weekend now you have a better idea what you are dealing with. 

Yes at least you know SOMETHING, instead of all the 'what if this' 'what if that' scenarios.

Hello again, 

Im back with positive news. My wife had an endoscopy a month ago because she had been having difficulty swallowing. The biopsy came back as cancer.

We were devastated and in shock for many days.

The next step was a CAT scan. This was followed up with a PET scan a week ago and a Laparoscopy today.  The news was very slow to come through, but gradually got faster. 

The swallowing gradually got much harder. Shes currently on prescription liquids only.

Today we received the full diagnosis immediately after the surgery.
Stage 1 tumour at the oesophageal/stomach junction.  A 3cm tumour. 

The plan is curative. Four lots of chemotherapy two weeks apart followed by the operation to remove the tumour.

We are all very relieved, as from what we had researched, we expected much worse based on her swallowing.

So today the next part of the journey begins.

I wanted to share this on here to hopefully give others hope in the early stages of diagnosis.

My wife is 49 and has never smoked or had much alcohol. Her BMI was spot on. 

I will post more updates as we progress.. x

Hi Rednax that’s good news. 
I’m  assuming you’ll get another 4x2 week session of chemo post op too. 
I was 10.5 months from diagnosis to finishing treatment which was mid August. Now currently sat enjoying the sunshine in Crete 

it is a long process and yes it’s tough but the sunshine awaits you both if you need something to focus on xx

Great news!