Hello Rosie

I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis. It's obviously a difficult time for you and understandable that you're feeling worried about how best to share this news with your children. 

Talking with loved ones can be difficult but you know your children best as you've already shared in your post how you expect them to act. 

It's good to hear that you've been told by the specialists that they expect a positive outcome for you and perhaps that may be how you choose to open the conversation. It sounds as if you are close to your children and I'm sure that however the conversation goes this evening, they will want to be there to support you and each other as you go through treatment. 

We have some information on our website about talking to children about cancer that may be helpful when you talk with your youngest child as well as some information for family, friends and carers that perhaps your older children may find helpful. 

If it would help to talk with one of our nurses before (or at any point after) speaking with your family you're most welcome to give them a call. I know they will be happy to offer any advice and support they can. they're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

I hope that things go smoothly for you Rosie. Keep in touch and let us know how you get on. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator