Help on deciding which is the best treatment

Unfortunately my brother has been diagnosed with mesothelioma.  Apparently early stages. Had a biopsy and the drain has finally come out after no more fluid for 7 drains. He has had an appointment with the oncologist but wanted to wait to decide on what treatment until after the drain was taken out. I know that he doesn't want to have any because of what he's heard about side effects or the treatment making it worse.  He won't talk to anyone that can give him information on what has or has not worked for them. He won't go to support groups 

He's old school, old fashioned and is shy on talking to people. So I thought that I'd just come back on here,  to see if I can get as much information, evidence as possible, to try to help him decide. His next appointment with the oncologist to make a decision will be soon, hopefully next week sometime.

Any thoughts will be gratefully received. 

Sally

  • Hi Sally,

    I'm sorry to hear of the situation with your brother - this sounds difficult and I hope you're getting on OK and can get the information you're after soon.

    I'm not sure how much has already been discussed with the specialist regarding options, but they are of course best placed to advise specifically to your brother, so it's important that any questions are asked so that he and you can get an understanding of what to expect.

    You may also find it helpful to talk things through with one of our nurses about this, as they may be able to provide some information for you as well. If you'd like to do this, you can reach them on freephone 0808 800 4040 - Monday-Friday, 9-5.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Ben
    Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Thank you Ben for your kind advice. Yes I will contact the nurses also

    Kindest regards Sally