How long for surgery? Guilty for taking time off work

Hi all,

I recently diagnosed with a lung carcinoid tumor. I am meeting with the surgeon next Tuesday and I am wondering roughly how long between meeting the surgeon and setting a date for surgery? Will it be days or weeks? I am still going in to work but it is getting a bit much for me now and I would ideally like to sign off under sick leave now but I have a feeling of guilt in case the surgery doesn’t happen for a while and it will look like I’m just skiving off if that makes sense. Would be great to hear other peoples experiences of how to deal with it, what would you do etc. 

Thank you.

Parents Reply
  • I am 26 and very early in my career. I’ve been taking days off for appointments and the odd day here and there. So just don’t want to look bad. An emotional rollercoaster is an understatement!! I think I just need to take some time off to really wrap my head around it and what’s ahead etc. Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions, especially for someone you don’t know, I really appreciate it! 

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