I was also told they did not stage or grade . I had bilateral mastectomies,could have had partial on right side but felt better removing them both ,felt even then . I had reconstructive surgery a year later ,had chemotherapy in between.Going to have the silicone implants next month after having my chest expanders in for a few months .Its all a very personal decision,I had myself put on waiting list for reconstructive surgery straight away ,as I wasn’t sure if I was going to have it done or not . I am 62 and happy I have had it done . See how you feel,don’t rush into it .Give yourself some time .Good luck ,stay positive xxx

Thank you for your advice. I didn’t realise how long the process would be, or about expanders.  I hope you have cleared yours for good now!  I’ve got an appointment come through for this evening so hopefully I’ll get some information from them.

thanks and good luck