My wife has been diagnosed with ovarian cancer

This is not the news that we had wanted but had been half suspecting when all the scans and other tests had indicated malignancy but unfortunately the biopsy had confirmed ovarian cancer following the MDT consultation this afternoon. However, I have to say that it was something that I had suspected all along when she had first had the cancer alert back at the end of January but there is some hope and optimism that can come out of this where the psyching up for preparation for this has regrettably come to fruition.

The first one is that finally at last that things are moving forward where she is meeting an oncologist at the end of this week to discuss a treatment plan which would commence in about 3 weeks’ time. We were also told that the type of cancer that she has got responds well to treatment and should kill and shrink the tumours.

We have been told that she will need chemotherapy which will be done in 3 cycles (each being a 3 week period) having 2 drugs intravenously given over a 5 hour period and then the following week of the other drugs and then the other a week later before the cycle continues.

She has also been told that after the first 3 rounds of chemotherapy that she will have another CT scan to check for the shrinkage of the tumours and to plan the necessary de-baulking surgery that she will need. Additionally, she has also been told that she would need to have both a hysterectomy and oophorectomy before undertaking a further 3 rounds of chemotherapy to get rid of any remnants of cancer cells.following a likely 6 week recovery period after the operation.

I have got my fingers crossed and also touching wood that she should be clear of the cancer by the end of the summer and hope that our lives can get back to normal again. It is going to be a tough road ahead in the next few months but it looks like our local NHS trust can give her the treatment that she needs very soon.

That is all I can say at the moment but the uncertainty about the speculation of what it was is now behind us and we can of course focus on the treatment and her long recovery from this.

  • Thank you for your reply. Very kind of you to give me detail, and in a positive manner. I’m a natural researcher by nature, but with this diagnosis, I’ve steered clear. And I appreciate you reminding me of the issues regarding historical information. 

    I had my first chemo last weds. I felt horrendous, but this week, I see light at the end of the tunnel. I wish your wife all the best. If she ever needs a chat, I can forward my email. I’m 57 and from near Bristol. 

  • My wife is 55 and we live in Stevenage in Hertfordshire and she has been treated at the nearby Hospital. She did tell me that the size of the original ovarian cyst was over 11cm and has now shrunk to less than 5cm and the bits that she did also have on the liver have disappeared. Her doctor had told her that the Avastin which she will now take until next March should shrink and possible eradicate what is left there. I can ask her to make contact with yourself as her self confidence is coming back again.

  • Lovely to hear your wife is doing well. I’m very glad her confidence is returning too. 

  • She is still suffering from anxiety and saying that she had wished that she had picked it up sooner. However, I have told to her focus on the fact now that she no longer has symptoms and the treatment has worked and will constantly be on the radar on checks and medication. She has another online call with her oncology doctor later today.The wonder drug is Avastin (Bevacizumab) as that stops the tumours in the tracks.

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    A quick update on my wife's treatment for ovarian cancer where she had another consultation with her oncology doctor today. She had completed her chemotherapy six weeks ago and her CA125 levels have remained static at around 9-10 which means that the cancer (and that is if there is anything left) is still in the inactive state so she is to continue with the Bevacizumab for the next 6 months at 3 week intervals. Whilst the physical side seems to be working, she does have days of extreme anxiety especially when she thinks she should had acted sooner but the main issue here is that the treatment has worked and put it in a stable condition. It is hard to say this but she has been put on anti-depressants and is going to have some professional counselling very soon.

    I have told her to take inspiration from the Princess of Wales who I believe is in an identical situation with her own cancer treatment to that of my wife where Catherine had stated "With humility, it also brings you face to face with your own vulnerabilities in a way you have never considered before, and with that, a new perspective on everything,"