Newly diagnosed stage 3, cervical cancer

I’m 58. I found out today I have stage 3 cervical cancer. I have to attend hospital next Thursday to see my oncologist. In the meantime, I’m falling to pieces…..I’m trying to be strong for my husban and failing miserably….I just want someone to tell me this will be ok…and I know it won’t. It’s further complicated by the fact I was diagnosed with gluten ataxia 4 years ago, which affected my walk g and balance. After a huge amount of work, I can just stand now, and was ready to start walking, and now this…..I don’t know what to do, where to turn….I feel caught in a terrible nightmare

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  • Hello Ana39, 

    I am sorry to hear about your cervical cancer diagnosis and I hope that your hospital appointment goes well on Thursday. Seeing your oncologist will allow you to find out more about your treatment plan and will hopefully help you feel a little better - it is normal to feel like you are falling to pieces after having just had a diagnosis. Poor you having to deal with this as well as gluten ataxia - it is a lot to have to go through. I just wanted you to know that you are not alone and I hope that I will be joined shortly by other members of our community who have been diagnosed recently with cervical cancer. It helps to talk to others who are in a similar place. I have had a little look for you and found  's Stage 3 cervical cancer thread from just a couple of weeks ago - this member was also recently diagnosed with stage 3c cervical cancer so could be a good person for you to connect with. Don't hesitate to post on their thread with your experience if you wish to do so. 

    Our nurses are also available on this free number 0808 800 4040 - their line is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm so don't hesitate to give them a call if you would like to talk things through with them at any time. 

    Best of luck for your appointment on Thursday. I hope you find out more about your treatment options and if you get a chance, please pop back here and let us know how what they have said at the appointment and what the treatment plan might be. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • Hello Ana39, 

    I am sorry to hear about your cervical cancer diagnosis and I hope that your hospital appointment goes well on Thursday. Seeing your oncologist will allow you to find out more about your treatment plan and will hopefully help you feel a little better - it is normal to feel like you are falling to pieces after having just had a diagnosis. Poor you having to deal with this as well as gluten ataxia - it is a lot to have to go through. I just wanted you to know that you are not alone and I hope that I will be joined shortly by other members of our community who have been diagnosed recently with cervical cancer. It helps to talk to others who are in a similar place. I have had a little look for you and found  's Stage 3 cervical cancer thread from just a couple of weeks ago - this member was also recently diagnosed with stage 3c cervical cancer so could be a good person for you to connect with. Don't hesitate to post on their thread with your experience if you wish to do so. 

    Our nurses are also available on this free number 0808 800 4040 - their line is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm so don't hesitate to give them a call if you would like to talk things through with them at any time. 

    Best of luck for your appointment on Thursday. I hope you find out more about your treatment options and if you get a chance, please pop back here and let us know how what they have said at the appointment and what the treatment plan might be. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • Thank you Lucy, for getting back to me, that’s really appreciated. Since I posted I’ve got my game face on ( somewhat!), and am looking at ways to help myself with diet , exercise and complimentary erapies. I keep using coffin humour to deal with my diagnosis- probably bad taste, but the only way I can even mentally deal with my position without bursting into an ocean of terrified sobs. I’ve r ched out to shazz89, and hopefully we can be useful to each other . Again, thank you for taking the time to reach out