Nah, no one will knock you for clinging on to some hope. My wife was told they were 99% sure, and we were to use the time between the biopsy and the results to get our head around it. There were still times we clinged to that 1%, but we ultimately used the time to get some acceptance. Simply because it saved us having to pick ourselves up from the floor twice over. So when the day came, it wasn't a ground breaking revelation. I hope that makes sense.

The reality is, whilst they do get it wrong, it's rare because they see this on a near daily basis, so they do kinda know. But someone has to be in that 10% you talk about. So why not you?

So sorry to hear about your wife, the time invetween its a horrible time, I k ow I kept thinking did I hear the doctor properly. Have had my result and they have come back as triple negative breast cancer, and need some scans and then qill soon start chemo in a few weeks, it's scary bit it feels better now that I kmow what is happening as the last few weeks I got told I basically had it then was told to wait to week for results atleast know I know what the future holds I guess. Thank you for writing back to me x