I had a right sided hemi colectomy just 5 months ago.  I am 73.  I was very anxious also.  the consultant spelt out all the possible other procedures and dangers of the surgery. and also the consequences that would likely occur if i chose not to have the surgery.  he drew diagrams and answerred all my questions .  I felt trust in his judgement and the team of people who would assist him.  still i was fearful.  I think its normal to be afraid. I am here 5 months later and my bowel has healed. Yes, recovery was not all plain sailing but I at this moment will say It Was Worth It.  I would recomend that you ask if you can have a colorectal nurse assigned to you, that you can ring for support and to answer any of your questions. The support and treatment has been phenomenal on the NHS despite their workload.  Only you can decide.  I am glad i made this decision.  am on chemo now till Feb 24 which not every one needs.  talk to your professionals.. good luck.

Your welcome.  I am optimistic about recovery most of the time so onwards and upwards.  Take good care of yourself and allow others to help and support you. C