Hey, you're not over thinking anything. I say it all the time on here, but one of the hardest part mentally is the not knowing. You've done really well keeping it together for two weeks, so don't go beating yourself up for boiling over. Many a person would have boiled over before now.

I've not got any real answers about the ins and outs of why they are giving you the appointment and if it's good or bad. But just wanted to say, this is always a really *** time for all involved. Once you know all the facts, and IF, and i really do emphasise the "if", you require a treatment plan, then you'll be able to focus your mind on that, and the worrying tails off a little.

There is no magic bullet to stop the worrying, but trying to focus on something else can work to an extent, but yeah, easier said than done. Good luck with it all, and if you're really struggling, do call the nurses and see if you can get answers to your questions from them. We found the nurses helpful.

It is terrible trying to cope. I think I would ring a nurse to see if you can find out more before 13th September. Keep posting on here too because we care and will try to give you strength.

I have spoke with the nurse my MRI scan is clear and she said the doctor will be discussing surgery with me on the 13th

Well, that's one good thing about the MRI scan being clear.

The nurse knew or didn't know why surgery will be discussed on the 13th?